Mondays with Martin
Mondays with Martin – February 20, 2012 As a congregation, First Presbyterian Church is blessed with witnesses to the life and movement of God in Jesus Christ in this world. I hear you folks speak of it all the time, maybe even when you don’t realize that you’re giving such a powerful witness. Such moments can be “transfiguring,” to use a word so recently on our lips in worship and so mysterious and seemingly alien to our experience.
Well, recently I was directed to take a look at our congregation’s Young Adult Volunteer’s blog. As you may recall, Jillian Manning, a graduate of Bethany College and member of our congregation, is taking this year to work in New Orleans with our denominational ministries there.
I read Jillian’s recent posting and was deeply moved. Here is the testimony of a follower of Jesus who is coming to grips with the reality of her witness in this world and the meaning of it for others, for herself, and for God. She concludes her entry with these words:
“so i choose to feel confident that god is using others’ gifts to get through to me..to let me know he still cares for me..loves me more than i can ever comprehend..and he does the same through me and my gifts..that’s why it’s so important for us to be aware of them and use them genuinely since they can easily alter someones day..week..and even life.. we have the choice to build or destroy”
If you would like to read the context of this words (and I suggest you do), please visit Jillian’s blog at: http://littlepostcardsfromnola.blogspot.com/
Sometimes the most transfiguring thing to happen to us is to realize how God in Christ might be using our lives in transforming the lives of others …-mra
Mondays with Martin – February 13, 2012 I once preached a sermon based on the following verses from Isaiah 40:
30 Even youths will faint and be weary,
and the young will fall exhausted;
31 but those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength,
they shall mount up with wings like eagles,
they shall run and not be weary,
they shall walk and not faint.
The older I grow, the more I find myself contemplating what it may mean to wait upon the Lord in order to renew our strength. I don’t think this is the kind of passive activity that we think of when it comes to waiting, but then again, it may just be good that we take time from time to time and do nothing about the issue, the problem, the struggle with which we are engaged.
In the sermon I preached, I made use of an illustration from the life of that great Pennsylvanian, Milton Hershey. We all know of Mr. Hershey’s products and the great company that he built in his hometown of Lancaster but how many of us realize that he was more of a failure than a success earlier in his career? Mr. Hershey founded a “sweet shop” in Philadelphia and failed; he founded a “sweet shop” in Denver and failed and then in Chicago and then on to New York City and it all ended the same: failure.
I don’t know if Mr. Hershey had any knowledge of the passage from Isaiah that I quoted above, but it makes sense to me from his example that success and victory can come even after successive failures and defeats. Sometimes, we might just need to wait a bit, be patience and seek strength from a Source outside of our self.
Grace and peace,-mra
Mondays with Martin – February 6, 2012 God chooses to dispense grace to humankind through the person of Jesus Christ. It is in the very incarnation of God in the wholly human, wholly divine Jesus that the world is met with a grace large enough and potent enough to envelope all of us.
This coming Sunday, one of the lectionary texts for preaching is the thirtieth chapter of the Book of Psalms. The opening lines of this great little psalm read as follows:
1 I will extol you, O LORD, for you have drawn me up
and have not let my foes rejoice over me.
2 O LORD my God, I cried to you for help,
and you have healed me.
3 O LORD, you have brought up my soul from Sheol;
you restored me to life from among those who go down to the pit.
It is the gracious choice of God that has provided for the presence of Jesus Christ in our lives. This is at the very heart of the proclamation of the church. We should never become confused, however, over just who is the source of this great grace. It is not the church or the sacraments that we celebrate or even the deeds of love and justice that we are compelled to enact by Christ’s presence, but rather God and only God.
Donald Bloesch, the late Reformed theologian, wrote in his seven-volume systematic theology, Christian Foundations:“The church does not dispense grace, but proclaims grace.”
That is simply the truth: God, in God’s great mercy, has chosen to dispense grace to us in Jesus Christ; our calling is to proclaim this truth in all its wonder, beauty and salvific detail.
Grace and peace,-mra
Mondays with Martin – January 30, 2012 Recently, I was accepted in the Doctor of Ministry degree program at the University of Dubuque Theological Seminary. A D.Min. degree presupposes that the candidate is actively involved in a congregational ministry and is willing to let his or her practice of ministry be influenced by what is learned in the process. Hopefully, the congregation benefits as well as the minister.
So, from time to time, I will be keepin you informed about both the process and what I’m learning in this course of study. I’m very excited to be embarking upon this three-year journey both for my own personal / professional growth and what it might mean for us as a congregation as well.
The particular program to which I have been accepted involves taking the experience of the early Christian church and laying it alongside our current experience as the church. In the centuries before Constantine, the culture and the empire was not Christian by any means. And, in a similar manner, we know live in a culture and society in which Christianity is not the norm any longer, but a past history and heritage. I think that such comparisons will be fruitful for us.
I’ve started on the rather long reading list and will keep you posted.
Grace and peace,-mra
Mondays with Martin – January 23, 2012 Instead of sermon “leftovers,” how about an advance peek at what may possibly be a part of the sermon this coming Sunday? Of course, this is no substitute for being present at our special, single combined 10 a.m. service and Annual Meeting following, but it might serve as a “teaser!”
The gospel text comes from the first chapter of Mark depicts Jesus teaching in the synagogue and a healing story of man with an “unclean spirit.” In a worship setting, healing is received and the presence of Jesus Christ is realized, as the gospel writer relates, “with authority.”
Eugene Peterson, retired Presbyterian minister, says this in his book, Practice Resurrection:
“Christ and church, church and Christ. When we are dealing with church we are dealing with Christ. When we are dealing with Christ we are dealing with church. We cannot have one without the other – no Christ without church, no church without Christ.”
In the contemporary American Christian scene, there is often a great emphasis upon a personal relationship with Jesus Christ which seems almost exclusive of the church. I agree with Dr. Peterson, there is no authentic relationship with Christ that does not involve a relationship with Christ’s church … and conversely, there is no authentic relationship with a church that does not presuppose a relationship with Jesus Christ.
Well, I guess we can talk about the rest of this on Sunday …-mra
Mondays with Martin – January 16, 2012 I’ve taken a bit of a hiatus from producing these weekly little messages, but I’m back at it now, well rested and ready to go …
Not too long ago, I re-read Jesus’ words to his disciples: “Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.” There’s a wonderful little “nugget” of scripture that we often pass over entirely too quickly. The affirmation that we receive here should not be missed. Jesus assures us that the church has no need to fear; it is God’s good pleasure to bestow upon us the very kingdom itself.
Sometimes, one can get a little despondent about the shape of Christ’s church. Let’s face it; we can be a strange and cantankerous bunch of folks (myself included, certainly!). We hold our own particular perspectives on issues as somehow sacrosanct and are slow to allow the value and worth of others’ views. We think highly of ourselves and judge with strict standards the actions of others. We speak before we think; act before we have reflected fully; decide while the jury is still out. We can be an odd bunch.
The Rev. Charles F. Goss, once Pastor of Avondale Presbyterian Church in the old Cincinnati Presbytery, was known to refer to one of his former churches as one “filled with persons of every nationality, every strange creed, and cranks of every kind.” I’ve always loved that kind of honesty about the church, for such does not just apply to Rev. Goss’ experience, but to all of our involvement with Christ’s people. For truly, we can be, at times, “cranks of every kind.”
And yet, to folks like us, Christ assures us that it is God’s good pleasure to entrust God’s own kingdom. Obviously, God sees things about us that even we ourselves miss from time to time. How such knowledge should broaden our generosity of spirit towards one another and even towards ourselves! Despite our quirks, our shortcomings, our inadequacies, God has given us the kingdom! To us, even us, God has come and chosen to reside with us, that the world might be changed and that we, as God’s people, might be transformed. That is grace and that is … wonderfully good news!
Remember who you are … to God. -mra
Mondays with Martin – December 19, 2011 From today’s entry in “God’s Light in Our World: Advent Devotional 2011”:
Read: II Peter 1:19-21
Notice the pronoun used in that first verse of our passage for today. It’s a plural pronoun. It’s not the “royal we” that refers in an elevated sense to the singular author; it is truly a reference to those who witnessed and relayed the event of the Transfiguration.
Peter gives in this passage some keys to interpreting and understanding scripture. Here, he makes it plain that interpretation of the scripture is not an isolated or lonely thing. Instead it is something that is done in community. Together we should reflect upon scripture as a church, a household of faith. Doing this together places us in an atmosphere much more conducive for the Spirit to influence our hearts and minds.
Fred Craddock, renowned preacher, has said this about that:
“Do not misunderstand; the availability of scripture to every family and person was and is a blessing beyond measuring. However, when I can sit alone with my Bible on my lap, I can easily be seduced into becoming my own church, and I might even cease to join the assembly that provided the scripture and that continually seeks to hear aright the Word of God.”
Another translation relates the beginning of our passage like this: “The prophetic Word was confirmed to us. You’ll do well to keep focusing on it.” Called by Christ to be a part of his church, Peter reminds us this day that we need each other to comprehend as best we are able, the height and depth and breadth of what has been given to this world and to us in Jesus Christ.
Grace and peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – December 12, 2011 From today’s entry in “God’s Light in Our World: Advent Devotional 2011”:
Read: Psalm 72:11-12
Sometimes the Christian Church has deflected some of the more political aims of God’s Kingdom. In an attempt to be good Americans, we have understood separation of church and state to mean a compartmentalization of the demands of faith from the rest of our lives. Nothing could be further from the truth. The coming Kingdom of God has obvious political ramifications; it is God’s kingdom after all!
One of those ramifications is the collective concern for the poor and the needy. This is a mandate from scripture, present both in the Old and New Testament. A witness to God’s expectation that we be concerned about the poor and needy is found throughout scripture.
The words of the Psalmist selected for today’s reading points this up sharply:
“May all kings fall down before him,
All nations give him service.
For he delivers the needy when they call,
The poor and those who have no helper.”
Here is what Henri Nouwen has written about this verse:
“We must develop a global spirituality in which the demands of the Gospel guide not only the behavior of individuals but of nations as well. Many will consider this naïve. They are glad to accept the teachings of Jesus for their personal and family lives, but when it comes to international affairs they consider these same teachings unrealistic and utopian … [However], the life of discipleship goes far beyond individual piety or communal loyalty.”
This too is part of the Advent hope … that one day the world would actually care about those who have little and would then share what it had until all had enough … this too is Advent.
Grace and peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – December 5, 2011 From today’s entry in “God’s Light in Our World: Advent Devotional 2011”:
Read: Isaiah 35:1-10
Read those words from Isaiah again … it is worth it. Catch a glimpse in the sentences that seem to pour out of the scripture like water on a parched and dried former riverbed. Soak up the images that beckon the hearer forward, forward into a future that is divinely held and not humanly manipulated. This is a description of the new heavens and new earth that Peter wrote of in our last installment.
Here’s what C.S. Lewis has written about this great Advent text:
“For God is not merely mending, not simply restoring a status quo. Redeemed humanity is to be something more glorious than unfallen humanity would have been, more glorious than any unfallen race now is.”
The eyes of the blind will be opened … the ears of the deaf unstopped … the lame will leap. Yet this is more than restoration; this is the newness of God’s eternal kingdom … this is new creation.
It is hard to conceive what God is planning for the ultimate reconciliation of all things. The writers of scriptures take their turns envisioning, but the final result, the final display is what we all await, not with anxious hearts, but with the confidence of those who trust in the One who will make all things new.
This is the hope of Advent; the hope of God’s Light shining forth in our world.
Grace and peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – November 28, 2011 From today’s entry in “God’s Light in Our World: Advent Devotional 2011”:
Read: Isaiah 40:9
The prophet Isaiah wrote to the people of Israel in the midst of their Babylonian captivity. Possibly, this 40th chapter is most well-known or at least well-loved. It starts with those wondrous words:
“Comfort, O comfort my people, says your God. Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, and cry to her that she has served her term, that her penalty is paid, that she has received from the Lord’s hand double for all her sins.”
Even in their captivity in a foreign land, the people of Israel were not alone; God was with them.
In our Advent waiting, so too it is not completely dark in this world; the Light of God’s presence continually breaks through to us. In the faces of our family, friends, church members, acquaintances and more, the Light of God comes shining forth, promising an even greater and grander in-breaking of the Lord’s holiness.
So take time today, in your Advent waiting, to bask in the Light of God that is breaking forth upon our world; the light in the faces of those all around you, those who are waiting with you.
Grace and peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – November 21, 2011 - Recently, I came across an old quote that I absolutely love:
“But doubt is not the opposite of faith; it is an element of faith. Therefore, there is no faith without risk.”
The quote comes from the great theologian, Paul Tillich’s Systematic Theology and it speaks to the heart of faith … risk taking. And it calls to my mind another quote from our former Book of Order:
“The Church is called to undertake [its] mission even at the risk of losing its life, trusting in God alone as the author and giver of life, sharing the gospel, and doing those deeds in the world that point beyond themselves to the new reality in Christ.”
I guess I’m thinking more in corporate or institutional terms than merely personal or individual. We are called by Christ to follow in Christ’s path; we are called to be the Church. Such a calling requires faith, not absolute adherence to doctrinal purity, but rather a living faith best described in Tillich’s terms. Therefore, the mission that we have been called to by Christ is mixed with both strong faith and considerable, human doubt.
Further, the Book of Order inspires us to realize that this is all risky business: the Church is called to be about the mission of Christ even at the cost of losing its own institutional life. The Church must be open to change and alteration in its faithful journey through life; all conventions, constructions and developments of church practice take second place to our ultimate calling of faithfully following Christ. All of that puts our institution of church into risk … even the risk of losing its own life. The same book reminds us that we must be about the business of being reformed and always being reformed by the living presence of Christ, even at the cost of change to the Church we love …
Grace and peace … -mra
Mondays with Martin – November 14, 2011 Fred Craddock, great preacher from the South, has famously related a story about a pastor who attended the Indianapolis 500 and was soon lulled into hoping for something to happen other than cars whizzing around a track in the same direction lap after lap after lap. At one point, a car burst into flame and because it was a distraction, he caught himself nearly leaping to his feet and shouting.
Odd what boredom can do to us, isn’t it? It has been observed that a good many folks at races are there for the crashes; the unusual occurrence rather than the counted-upon, expected performance: cars circling a track and someone being proclaimed the winner … anything to break the monotony of the everyday.
Boredom is something that we all face, but maybe it can be turned toward spiritual good. Next time you’re bored try this: turn off the TV, unplug your ears from the Ipod, get off the Internet, put down the paper and just start talking to God. Maybe boredom is a way of God speaking to us and reminding us that we not meant for continual, 24-hour-a-day stimulation and consciousness. Maybe, just maybe, boredom is a signal to our bodies and souls that we are being called to a deeper moment of quiet and reflection. Maybe, just maybe, God might make us of such moments in our lives and lead us into even more profound understandings about ourselves, the human condition and best of all, the mercy of God.
Bored yet? I hope so … -mra
Mondays with Martin – November 7, 2011 Some of you have asked for a reprint of the illustration that I ended my sermon with yesterday. The following comes from Rev. Dr. William Willimon:
I remember preaching a series of sermons in which I talked about death and eternal life. One Monday morning I got the call. “Fred has collapsed. Mary says that she thinks he has died. She has called the ambulance.” I put down the phone and raced out to their farmhouse. I got there just as the ambulance was arriving.
Mary met me at the door and asked me, “Tell me again what you said in your sermon last Sunday about eternal life? I want to be sure I got it right.”
Though she didn’t know it, when she was listening to my sermon she was preparing herself, she was obtaining oil for her lamp, getting ready for night. She would be able to go into that dark with her lamp shining.
It might help with context for those of you who were unable to be with us yesterday, to go to the church’s website and find the sermon in its entirety. You can access that at: fpcgreensburg.com/the-pastors-desk/weekly-sermons
Grace and peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – October 31, 2011 Tomorrow is All Saints Day. Today, as you may know, is All Hallow’s Eve (the night before All Saints Day). Halloween has come to mean something a bit different than that in our culture: a time for children and adults to indulge in “tricks or treats” or to have their heartbeat raised a bit by tableaus of ghoulish and scary scenes in neighborhood front yards.
Though I dutifully dole out candy to those who venture up the hill to our neighborhood, I prefer to concentrate upon the significance of this evening in relationship to tomorrow. I begin to contemplate those saints of the Lord who have gone before me. Though Halloween has become in our culture a bit of “a night of the living dead,” I’m reminded that the dead in Christ still live. Ghoulish and scary tableaus of zombies aside, I recall on this evening the affirmation that those who have died in Jesus Christ now live with him.
Take time this evening or tomorrow in your prayers to recount those who have gone before you in the faith and offer your thanksgiving for their lives, now “hid” in Christ awaiting the great day of Resurrection (again, this is not about zombies!).
Grace and peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – October 24, 2011 First of all, thank you for the many kind compliments about yesterday’s sermon. It warms a preacher’s heart to know that at least he has been heard. So, thanks for all the kind words.
Some asked about the quote from Charles Hodge, 19th century professor at Princeton Theological Seminary. Here’s what I relayed to the congregation from Hodge’s commentary on the text for Sunday:
“The real test of the genuineness of any inward affection is not so much the character of the feeling as it reveals itself in our consciousness, as the course of action to which it leads. Many persons, if they judged themselves by their feelings, would regard themselves as truly compassionate; but a judgment founded on the acts would lead to the opposite conclusion. So many suppose they really love God because they are conscious of feelings which they dignify with that name; yet they do not obey him. It is thereby by the fruits of feeling we must judge its genuineness both in ourselves and others.”
Hodge of course makes a sound point: it’s not so much our feelings about a challenge that has been set before us as it is the fruits of those feelings … do we really act earnestly in accordance to our eagerness? It’s a good question that all followers of the Lord must answer to their own satisfaction.
To see how all this fits into the context of yesterday morning, go to the sermon page at this website.
Grace and Peace, -mra
Mondays with Martin – October 17, 2011 I thoroughly enjoyed the leadership of our youth in worship yesterday during the 9:30 hour. They did an absolutely wonderful job of leading in worship and participating fully in the service. Indeed, we are blessed at First Church with youth who “get it” when it comes to being followers of Jesus Christ.
One of those “kids” whom we all watch grow and mature as a Christian has become a Young Adult Volunteer with the PC(USA). Jillian Manning, as most of you know, is serving in New Orleans this year with our denomination. I found the following on her blog, littlepostcardsfromnola.blogspot.com and wanted to share it with you:
“i think it’s easy to get absorbed with the amount of despair that surrounds us..it’s an energizing feeling to have that urge to ‘save the world’..but equally discouraging when you realize you are in fact only one individual capable of only doing so much..it can be overwhelming..it’s easy to lose hope in humanity when you realize how much there is still to do in the world and even around the corner you’re strolling on..
“but i try to remind myself maybe i am in the best possible position to change a little bit of that..even if i am only one person..maybe i could make a difference with another individual…”
Written, I believe, like a true disciple of Jesus Christ … the attention to changing the world by the manner of one’s own life, one’s own influence as an individual upon other individuals … strikes me to be right at the heart of Christ’s call.
I hope you’re as inspired by the young people of our church as I am … -mra
Mondays with Martin – October 10, 2011: Sometimes, work is just work. Other times, work is a blessing to the soul. Such was the case this past week.
One quiet moment, while I was sitting in my study working on the sermon, I looked up and saw something on the open door to my study that I hadn’t noticed in a while. It was a simple sign that bears only one word: PASTOR.
I didn’t put that sign on the door. That sign was there before I arrived here. It’s probably been there for a succession of inhabitants of this office. I was grateful to see it there and take notice of it again. It reminded me of something pretty important.
The term PASTOR is something bestowed upon a person, not awarded, not won, not grasped … bestowed. It implies a relationship of trust, respect and mutuality. You have bestowed this title upon me and it’s not one that is portable. That is, PASTOR is not a term I can take with me. I am YOUR pastor; I am not pastor to the people of First Presbyterian Church, Northville, Michigan or Flushing Presbyterian Church, Flushing, Michigan. I once had those relationships; I do not any longer. I am YOUR pastor. Thank you for the honor and for the trust implied in bestowing this role and title to me. It’s been over ten years now that I’ve been with you on your journey as a congregation of God’s grateful people and it’s been the kind of work that is really a blessing.
Thank you for the blessing … -mra
Mondays with Martin – October 3, 2011
In sermon preparation, I ran across the following quote, worth passing along:
“The One who judges us most finally will be the One who loves us most fully.”
Fred Buechner offered this aphorism in response to a discussion about the ultimate judgment of God and the infinite mercy of God as well. It is a truth worth reflecting upon today.
Grace and peace,
-mra
Mondays with Martin – August 1, 2011
The following passage is from the Epistle to the Hebrews:
“Let us hold fast to the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who has promised is faithful. 24And let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good deeds, 25not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”
Even in the early church, there was concern that the members of Christ’s body were not gathering together enough so that they might be encouraged by the fellowship of others. It has been a concern of church leadership ever since, throughout the centuries.
Our Membership & Evangelism Committee has been at work this summer, promoting fellowship gatherings so that we might find the time to be together outside of the walls of the sanctuary. In June, we attended a delightful play at St. Vincent’s. There were over 20 in attendance.
In July, we went to the ballpark and had a wonderful evening fellowshipping around the diamond with the Washington Wildthings. This event was very well attended, with over 20 there as well … of course, the park was filled with others of course.
Now, in August, the M&E Committee is presenting our final summer installment: an evening at St. Clair Park for the SummerSounds concert. On Friday, August 12, we’ll gather at St. Clair Park (we’ll reserve a space up around the path over by the train tracks, straight up from the stage) at any time after 6:30 p.m. The concert will start at 7 p.m. and is sponsored by our good friends at Redstone Highlands.
Remember to join us next Friday evening so that we might be encouraged by the fellowship of Christ’s church.
Grace and peace,
-mra
Mondays with Martin – July 18, 2011
Today’s message is fairly simple, short and to the point. Sometimes, that is the best kind of message that can be given!
Jesus said: “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.”
Spend some time this day, meditating upon the simple commandment that we all have received!
Grace and peace AND love,
-mra
Mondays with Martin – July 11, 2011
Usually, it’s sermon leftovers, but never previews that you find here. Well, this week, this is a bit of a preview.
This coming Sunday, the Old Testament lectionary text is the familiar story of Jacob and his ladder found in Genesis 28:10-22. Actually, it’s not his ladder as the old spiritual implies, but rather it is God’s stairway which provides egress and regress for his ministering angels between heaven and earth. However, that doesn’t fit into a children’s Sunday school song as well as the ladder …
Regardless, it is one of the great, but undervalued stories of the Bible. Give it a read this week in preparation for Sunday’s worship.
Below is a wonderful little piece of verse from Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s poem: “Aurora Leigh,” that might give you a hint of the direction of the sermonizing to come …
“Earth’s crammed with heaven,
And every common bush afire with God:
But only he who sees, takes off his shoes,
The rest sit around and pluck blackberries …”
See you in Church …
-mra
Mondays with Martin – July 5, 2011 (Tuesday)
“Daddy, tell me a story!” How often I heard that when my daughter was younger and I was tucking her in for the evening. I know that in this experience. In fact, I can recall begging my father or mother for a story before I closed my eyes and drifted off to sleep. Story, narrative, tale and saga are all part of one of the most essential ways we understand life and our place in it.
This is certainly true about the Bible. It is not revolutionary or novel to say that God’s word to us in the form of the biblical witness is consumed by story. There are stories of all kinds within the page of God’s holy writ. These stories range in scope from universal events (i.e. the story of creation) to the particular and the peculiar, like the tale of Ananias and Sapphria (found in the fifth chapter of the Book of Acts). Regardless, the Spirit of the living God seeks to instruct us in the faith by the use of story.
With this realization, I invite you to participate in a unique Adult Education event to be held over the next four Sundays. We will gather in the Memorial Chapel of the building at 9 a.m. on Sundays, July 10, 17, 24 & 31 to discuss the four major stories (themes) of the biblical witness and how those themes and stories speak to us still to this day.
This Sunday, we will be discussing the stories about creation and re-creation found in Genesis, the Gospel of John and the Book of Revelation. Come join us this Sunday!
Grace and peace,
-mra
Mondays with Martin – June 27, 2011
In my ministry, I’ve lead a fair number of funerals and memorial services. At the beginning of my ministry, this was not an easy task for me. I realized that I had to come to grips with my own sense of morality, the hope that is witnessed in the resurrection of Jesus Christ and the overall witness of his church to folks in times of their greatest need, including me. It all took some time to grow more comfortable with this role that is a part of every pastor’s life.
One of the things that I have found that helps folks in a great time of grief was discovered right here at First Church Greensburg. I inherited this from one of my predecessors and it appears included in almost every bulletin we print for a funeral or memorial service. I pass it along in case you’ve never seen it:
What We Believe About Death
The very center of the gospel focuses upon the victory over death by God in Jesus Christ. As his followers, we are convinced that we share in that victory over the grave. We affirm that at death the believer goes to the presence of God who is an eternal home. Nothing, not even death, can separate us from the love of God in Christ. So death is not the end, rather it is the beginning of fuller service which will be completed in the resurrection of the body. This hope is never based upon a person’s worth, but only upon the graciousness of God.
Therefore, in the Presbyterian tradition, a funeral is a Worship Service. Certainly it is therapy for our sense of loss and grief, but primarily it is a service of worship to God wherein we as God’s people witness to our belief in the communion of saints, the resurrection of the body and the life everlasting, in which also the assurance of God’s salvation and life in Christ are especially comforting to the bereaved. We gather here not so much to mourn our dead as to confess our faith in a living Savior, not so much to exhibit our grief, but to recall our profound gladness and solemn joy in Christ our living Lord. So let us worship God.
I have found comfort in those words; I know that others have as well. I hope it does the same for you.
Grace and peace,
-mra
